Guestblogger BlackRose: LDR'S

Hey guys!
I’m writing this on the day you are reading my 1st blog, and I’m currently in the train home. Just broke up with my GF, I was supposed to stay until Saturday, but I pretty much knew we weren’t going to make it until then.
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So I decided to do a blog about Long Distance Relationships, as I got 3 hours for it anyway until I’m home.
Believe me, no matter how hard you try, it won’t work out. Sunday would’ve been our 4 month anniversary, and it’s already broken. I think the main problem is you can’t see each other a lot and never can do some fun stuff together. Every time we were together, we just stayed at home and… Well you probably know what happened mostly. That was also a huge problem, because that’s not what a relation is about, no matter how many hormones are screaming through your body, it’s not an excuse. A relation should be about having fun together, caring for each other and just having a good time, not about fucking whenever you want.
Also a great factor what at least broke me and my ex up, was jealousy. As you guys have figured by now, me and Floor are great friends, but my GF instantly thinks I’m cheating on her. Most of my friends are girls because I can’t get along with most guys, but that’s also because of my bullying experiences in school. But every time I went to go hang out with a girl, she freaked out. She didn’t show it, but I could see it from her behavior. From my side that was a huge turn-off, and mostly what broke me and her apart. It just annoyed me like hell, I don’t freak out either when she and a guy are hanging out together and I don’t even want to know what happens when she gets drunk in a bar somewhere. Because I didn’t care and I trusted her.
Sure, I do call some of my friends beauty and cutie, but that doesn’t mean I’ve fallen in love with them?

All with all, I hope you guys don’t have the same experiences with LDR’s as me, because there might be some hope after all. But for me, I just can’t handle it. I can’t stand not knowing any of the people she hangs out with, or not knowing  the places she goes to.
Sure, if it’s like.. 20 minutes away, I can handle it. But 3 hours is just too much. You’re in a completely different environment  with different uses and dialect. I’d say the border is an hour of traveling… Because that’s where the real changes start to form. At least in The Netherlands that is.
And this blog is not to keep you away from LDR’s, I just want to share my experiences. Always follow your heart, no matter what other people think of it. That’s why I’ll say this as well.

Floor, I love you.

Xoxo BlackRose.